Assistance and Support for Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASS) in Relationships

Contrary to common belief, individuals with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASS) are capable of having long-lasting partner relationships. However, these relationships can sometimes face challenges due to the issues associated with ASS. Both the partner with and without ASS may feel misunderstood and unhappy. Women in relationships with men with ASS often feel like they invest more, both in the relationship and in the day-to-day functioning of the family. Some even describe it as having an additional child in the house. On the other hand, men with ASS often feel like they can never do enough.

ASS in Your Partner, Now What? is a unique psycho-educational program designed specifically for the non-autistic partner. This program can be utilized in group sessions, individual therapy, or even in the comfort of your own home. It also provides opportunities for healthcare professionals, such as the POH-GGZ (Practical Mental Healthcare Support in General Practice),to incorporate these techniques into their practices. The program not only focuses on understanding autism in men but also addresses the impact it has on women and their relationships.

Els Blijd-Hoogewys and Anja Talboom, drawing from their extensive experience, have successfully made complex information accessible through a 10-step program. Women in relationships with men with ASS not only gain a deeper understanding of autism but also develop greater empathy for their partners. The program also provides practical tools for navigating daily life, which ultimately improves the overall relationship and allows women to regain a sense of personal fulfillment. Above all, this program emphasizes the importance of respecting partners with ASS.